It’s not as easy for them as it seems. It’s obvious to us because we are adults they are still learning and pooping and peeing on themselves helps trust me!!!
Underwear can feel too much like a diaper. Try pants only or a skirt for a bit longer.
Update: she still isn’t getting the process and having accidents. Before she was getting used to telling me she had to potty and would pee. Now, I have to take her to pee when I see signs and she just holds the poop when she’s naked or if she can’t hold it she just goes on the floor. I don’t know what to do. My grandmother who is helping me put her back in the pull ups. She said she has to go back in pampers. I feel like I’m failing as a mother and can’t raise my child. This is so hard.
It’s ok just keep being consistent she will get it. Let her keep popping herself she will get tired of it. With my daughter she shows signs and body language when she starts popping, if your kid does the same just put her on when she starts. Be patient and gentle and kind they are trying their hardest and need repition for long periods of time!!! Where you messed up in the past was going back on the routine and that was confusing. Just stay at it you got this mama!!!!