Stay or go

You need to talk things through and come to a compromise x

He won't budge. It's because what his mom and brother kept driving through his head

So he wants to start working day shift and so the kids would have to go to daycare?

If he wants to work days then you swap to nights if you can. I wouldn’t budge if you really didn’t want it!

I don’t think I really understand your post but I will say that any partner not respecting your opinion, or need for effective communication, isn’t a good partner at all. If he’s not responsive, then you’re both just solo parenting together and will always argue. I’d personally try my best to inspire better communication but leave before that completely drained my soul.

Would you be able to keep them out of daycare if you left?

@Haley Because I work days.

@Mama A I can but he told me no.

@Andria Yes. Because I switched locations for work. I have family that would help.

This seems tricky. If I were you guys, we would sit down and make a pro/con list. Why does he want to switch to days, could you switch to nights, could someone work part time, what is the price of daycares, ect. I don’t think this is a leave your partner kind of thing. Or at least not on its own.

So can they help you with your kid with him switching to days? Or he’s adamant about them going to daycare? I’m not sure why he wouldn’t be okay with your family watching them over daycare

He doesn't like my sisters much and He just wants our daughter to go to daycare because he don't want to watch her.

@Haley Well hate to say it but I been paying for everything for months bc he don't wanna work because he rather talk to his friends.