In love

Stick to your guns. Be strong. It is tough but you can (and will) do it! Get with some girlfriends and have some fun. Take care of yourself in order to be there for that kiddo!

@Justine thank you so much for your advice 😊

I was in this situation. It's like he was there but he wasn't. I felt so alone. I broke up with him even though i was still in love with him. It was so hard and I was sad for awhile. You'll find someone who will want to spend time with u. It just takes time. Try and keep yourself busy. Start working out. Going to church.

I’ve been with a married man. People kept telling me I deserve better and I remember being annoyed with it. Now when I’m in relationships I think about what I WANT more than deserve. I don’t know what I deserve but I know I most definitely don’t want to be treated this way. Being in love shouldn’t hurt all the time and good for you for ending things. Maybe one day you will find someone new, and maybe you won’t. But you won’t be sad over a man who doesn’t care enough to be there for you at all times and chooses other people over you. That’s peace.

@Ashley yes that’s how he was. There but not there. He would call and text every day and that’s it. Weekends have been the worst because It’s just me and my baby. It does get so lonely. But I’m hoping it will get better 😊 Thank you for your advice

@Jessica even tho I’m so sad right now I am so glad it’s over I just couldn’t do it any more. And I will make better choices for any future relationship. :)

Don’t beat yourself up over the past and don’t let carry it into your next chapter. I hope you get all the things you want for yourself. You’ve got a little one to focus on and be in love with. F that guy haha

@Jessica yes you’re right. And my baby is my world. So I will focus on him. I honestly feel much better with all you guys’s advice

Thank you 🙏🏽

He’s married your relationship with him is just as co parents You’re going to hurt yourself and your child by expecting more

@Tashina yes I understand, that’s why I’m letting go of all the feelings I have for him.