Do you think he got me pregnant on purpose or was being careless?

Probably both yall just being careless and doesn’t care. If you didn’t specifically say you were ovulating then I doubt he’d know

If I wanted a condom used that badly and saw he wasn’t we wouldn’t have gone any further with sex. I wouldn’t blame it on just the guy

sounds like carelessness on both parts.

The both of you are careless.

Erm, YOU were being careless too, as you didn't force the issue AND you're not taking control of your own contraception. Why?

I don’t think you can just blame him. Pull out is not a reliable contraceptive. If you didn’t want to get pregnant you should’ve protected yourself

Yeah, pull out method is hardly reliable ..... I would argue you are both to blame here! Don't ever let a man on the edge of an orgasm be the responsible one. It's your body. You take care of it.

Yeah, you absolutely cannot blame this man. You’re both old enough to know the consequences of not using protection, assuming you were taught sex education at a younger age. If you didn’t/don’t want the baby, just say that but don’t guilt trip him into thinking that he was careless & irresponsible.. It takes two to tango💃🏻🕺🏻

He doesn’t care since it’s not him that has to carry and birth a baby

It's both of you being careless, you can't just point the finger at the man

Well the pull out method was working for us for years and he decided to do something different. I understand I should’ve just went w my gut and what I told him cus when I mentioned a condom he said don’t u remember last time we tried to make a baby and I told him we’re not trying to make babies and then he didn’t pull out this time like he usually does.

@Kelly so true

@Anonymous I just feel like he did something different which was not pull out when that’s what he usually did 🤦‍♀️

This still doesn't excuse you of any responsibility! Get on contraception if you don't want babies!

Ew I'm sorry you were sexually involved with someone you wouldn't want to settle down with bc that just brings extra challenges.

You are responsible for yourself not getting pregnant. Never leave that up to chance to anyone else, especially someone you're not committed to. You were both irresponsible.