If you notice you partner is off and he/she(I'm not saying any of you mamas are with an other women just if there is I'm nit excluding them) do you ask and get an honest answer?

Usually not, but if I then open up about myself it prompts him to do the same

@Laura I've tried everything to get him to tell me what's wrong 🥺 and the only time he was a. Open book was when we was drinking wine ( he was drunk by the point he opened up about alot of thing ) but ever since he won't open up to me but I feel like he talks to others about what wrong like other women

My husband is typically a good communicator but there are times when something bothers him and he's trying to let it go and all day he'll just keep saying he's fine and then night time rolls around and I'm trying to go to sleep and he wants to talk. I never get enough sleep and I finally told him that's rude and inconsiderate. He's been a little better. The talking to other people/women thing would be a huge no for me.

@Rachel I'm worried he being more open to then me his fiance

Me and him both tend to say "nothing" is wrong when it's just been a long day or we're tired as there's not really anything anyone can do about that but we both know that's what "nothing" means, we just let each other have some peace and rest if that happens but anything else, like genuinely being upset or something is wrong we always talk to each other about it

@katherine ik if he's had a bad day or when his upset and I always ask when his upset n he says nothing wrong

Some men aren’t big on feelings. They like to suffer in silence. You gotta try and ask and let them know its ok to share things and be vulnerable. It took my husband a while to be open about stuff but I didn’t really push him to share if he didn’t want to. Just be patient and maybe let him know you won’t judge if he opens up? Not saying you judge him but maybe he feels like you would? Idk

Is there any chance he's depressed? He may be feeling low and not fully understand why..