Feeling guilty

So im 9dpo and been trying for 8 months to conceive my sister came over today to tell me she's pregnant and instead of being happy for her I burst into tears feeling upset it wasn't me. Has anyone else been through this how do you pull through
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Yes! This was me when my sister just announced (she went through ivf and it took 5ish years to get where she is) I treated her like shit because I was so jealous/upset. I feel bad now I’ve had mine and she’s the first person I tell when I’m pregnant (unfortunately after my first I’ve had 2 mmc though). I just focused on having my own baby and tbh I did avoid her for a while. I didn’t wanna be round her! But you honestly get used to it!!

@Courtney Davis it hurts sooo much im literally sat crying because she knows how long we have been trying i feel regret for not giving her the support she needs but im so hurt 😔

I know girl but you will be happy for her eventually, give yourself time to process how you feel! Honestly you’ll be okay once you’ve given yourself time! Xx

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