Have any of you forgave your partner for cheating ?

How did you do it ? How are things going now? My husband fooled around with a girl I just found out but it happened 9 months ago. They never had sex but the relationship they had was too close and they definitely had an emotional affair. Nudes were exchanged, dirty talk etc.. they stopped speaking about 2 months before I found out. As of now I’ve left him but I still talk to him and want to forgive him. I just don’t know how to forget. Have any of you forgiven a partner for cheating? He’s not making it easier either, he’s really apologetic and every time I try to go no contact (talk only when necessary about our kids) he’s so persistent and doesn’t let me. I don’t wanna block him. I tried and he called everyone and my mama to get me to speak to him again.

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Ya I did and then he cheated again

To be fair it was my bf but 3 year relationship

girl, I don’t know.. I can’t forgive my husband for having relationships before he met me.

If my husband cheated on me id forgive but not forget and definitely wouldn’t stay

I forgave my bf, it took us a minute to get that trust back and I told him it will always be in the back of my mind if he’ll do it again. It has been 4 years since and he has been loyal.

@Maria uGh so sorry babe x

@Assiya 🤣🤣🤣that was me as well

@Assiya girllll 😂 same here, was he your first?

@Faith hahahh no! funny thing is he had only one serious relationship and it was long distance. and I had serious relationship for 5 years 🤣 still I can’t get over the fact that HE loved someone else. THE AUDACITY!!!

You shouldn’t forgive him , once a cheat always a cheat.

Personally haven’t had this experience but I have close friends that have had similar situations and what they told me is that it came down to an ultimatum, whether they wanted to be with him or not. Because where they wanted to be with him, they found a way to move on, put it behind them, and make their relationship work. That said those were small momentary slip ups. Sounds like this was an ongoing thing. For me it would also depend on if he was apologetic and making up for the mistake or not. And finding out why he did it. An ex of mine cheated on me all the time as I later found out, and he felt zero remorse and even tried to convince me that I was cheating on him 😂 so he had to go.

I forgave mine but man it’s taken over 2 years for me to fully trust him again, I still have little niggles but when it happened I wasn’t in a good place mentally and wasn’t strong enough and he knows now if it was to happen again I’d be gone like a shot

In a past relationship I did. But it's forever tainted the relationship, and we ended up breaking up multiple times, it was such a waste of my time and mental health. Looking back, I never should have forgave him or stayed. The resentment and lack of trust was like poison

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