Dating…but married.

Mamas, I’m a 24 year old mom to a 2 year old babygirl and I am actually married. The marriage was an arranged marriage, so we never loved each other. Recently he started going on dates with different women, and I want to do the same thing but I want to be a better mom. I don’t want my kid to see me leaving my home at 9pm to go see some man. But I am just dying for some good sex. I know this may be too much information but I can’t wait anymore. Last time I had sex was with him, 1 year ago when he got drunk. I’m tired, I don’t want sex from him. I don’t love him. I want someone else but him. And I can’t leave him for some reasons that I can’t mention on here… please ladies, tell me what to do because I’m going insane watching porn every night and my vibrator is broken now.
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Seeing your husband leave to meet with other women will impact your daughter more. My mum was in an unhappy marriage, which has resulted in my sister and I getting into toxic even dv relationships. Idk why you can't leave him but infidelity is a good reason 🤷🏼‍♀️

I don’t think your child will see you leaving and think of you as a bad mom. But being in a situation that makes you unhappy will definitely be noticed by them. Children thrive better when mom is happy. Go get laid darling

@Nissa thank you for this💜

I’m married I go out at night w gfs, the kids know I’m seeing Aunty this and Aunty that, (every single one of my friends they call Aunty) or we go dinner or pub or club, (I actually go salsa dancing as a hobby) and most times they don’t ask they just know Daddy’s putting them to sleep which he does some days I’m home also. Put the kids to sleep and go wherever, see whoever you want 💁🏻‍♀️ Mines 5 he sleeps through since 18m so even if I leave at 7/8 and get home at 12-1am it doesn’t affect him missing me or my parenting - at all. Just make sure you take turns w him and say ok you went out last night, tonight is my night your turn to stay home w the kids etc. Even if you’re not seeing a “man” you can still go out at night and have some fun, enjoy some night life. My social life hasn’t stopped just because I have kids 🙂

She wouldn’t know where or what you’re doing or even who unless you say. Go fill your cup so you can pour into hers

Listen, babes, go have fun just be safe💕

Hopefully your daughter doesn't have to experience what you went through

Arranged marriages exist? Wish I knew the back story to this.. sounds very intriguing!! As for the dating! If she asks you, then I'd just say you are going out with a friend.

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