should i block my bd
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He sounds toxic and an absent father is better than a toxic one
Yeah I do agree some with the above. But I can also see how frustrated I would be. But yes I agree you need to get him on child support and a visitation schedule. Mine is nice bc I have all the power when he can see my child. He has some addiction issues so if I feel he is drunk or anything then he won’t get him. I decide when he had him and most of the time it’s just over night on Saturday from 6pm-4pm Sunday. But yeah sometimes he stays when my daughter is here that weekend about once a month. He pays me about 800$ a month. It comes right out of his check.
Seems like he don’t care one way or the other. U don’t want to beg a person to be in your child life because they could hurt them. Not be a good person. I mean, he calls u names and is useless. You’re better without him. Block him or not, he still isn’t a good person .
Just block him and be happy with your child.
thanks guys for the advice, i’ll go no contact with him until he steps up and becomes a better dad. i can’t keep letting it get to me 😢
He may never step up and be a good dad. It's sad to say but it's true. You do need to protect your peace and sanity. How you do that is up to you unless court has ordered you to keep contact.
I wouldn’t block him . I’d simply go to court if I were you . Get a parenting plan and child support set. The child support will come out of his check you guys will have set times for him to see your child. When you try to do it all yourself and lean on someone who is unreliable’s word you do more harm to yourself while their life goes on . Think more logical and less emotional. I know it’s easier said than done but once you master it then you will be more at peace.