💔 last month troubles.

I am 9 months pregnant. The day of my babyshower which was Saturday and basically the early morning after.. my babydad decided that he wanted to see other women?? He literally even came the next day while I was gone broke into the house and packed up all his stuff and left haven’t heard from him since. Mind you I pay his phone bill & I paid his car note as he lost his job in January and since I’ve been carrying the weight of the bills. So I cut the phone off but he still has a way to contact me and didn’t so.. I cut the phone back on and just I don’t know.. It’s just like I hate myself so bad, I feel like the ugliest woman walking on earth.. he hasn’t contacted me still or attempted.. I’m just s o broken it hurts.. I wish I was other women that he desires which is every woman but me. At times I wish I wasn’t pregnant because maybe he would love me?? I’m just not sure.. it hurts so bad.. I even went and talked to the person that raised him but still nothing.. no one has heard from him and I’m just wondering if he found a new place to stay at with some woman.. I feel so sick to my stomach. I feel like I’m dying inside. I cry every hour. While I’m nesting the baby’s room and while I’m not. I just want him to come home to his family 😞💔. I know I can’t beg for him but it’s so hard… I know he’s cheating on me while he’s gone… he basically admitted he’s going to.. it’s just so sickening. I’m almost due and if I can they in contact with him.. how will he witness the birth… so much you guys I feel so terrible. Just ready for the baby to come.

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No one deserves to go thru this situation especially now you are heavily pregnant- I know he is the father of your baby and it’s a hard thing to do but best believe most men like this won’t change ever and you don’t wanna keep going thru this like in circles It’s time to make a decision and pick you first - you come first and the safety of your child. For a man to treat you that way in this condition he don’t deserve your love and your support - for now you need to pick up yourself and get strong for this baby and maybe after the baby deal with him

I am so so sorry you're going through this. Me and my BD split at 8weeks pp after finding out he'd been cheating on me throughout my pregnancy, if it helps the only thing i regret is not finding out before I gave birth so I didn't have to share my special frist moments, pictures and give her his last name that he's refusing to let me sign despite having not seen her in months. Do you have a close friend or maybe your mum who could be with you through the birth? Please know this is not your fault and while it's the hardest thing you'll ever do it is so so worth it. Your baby is going to be so perfect and I'm sure you'll be overwhelmed with love when you see them, it's you and the baby you need to focus on. It's also hard but don't fight for him to be there it'll just cause further resentment and take up energy you probably aren't going to have... Take care, stay strong and remember if he'd do this to you he's not worth it. You deserve so much better 🩷

Ma’am if he desires other woman he’s for the streets. Cut that phone again and go pamper yourself or your baby .

I would pull his phone records to find out who he’s talking to. I don’t know what I’d do with it. He doesn’t deserve you or his baby. I’m so sorry. I hope you can find support from others. And I hope you never forgive him for this.

Girl... if he left you drop all his bills! You have yourself and a child to worry about. Take care of yourself and your baby. You deserve happiness and a whole lot more than him... he wants to be gone. Let him be gone.

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