Currently crying/venting
We barely have sex and if so it’s cause I initiate everything he don’t touch me or kiss me he said that maybe his past relationships took that from him. I had accept the fact that “sex isn’t that important in the relationship” that what he said, and when we are together I don’t enjoy it most of the time cause it just happens, very veeery plain no efforts I don’t feel desired it just happens and he just finish and don’t let me enjoy anything, most times I fake or I told him I didn’t cum and I feel like shit that I don’t care. Besides that my relationship is very solid, he respects me and care about the family our kids provides home and provides me all I want. I’ve talk with him several times but he get so aggravated that I point out all this. He said that this is the most healthy relationship that he has been and I’m always looking for something to fight or say like he’s doing something wrong that couples don’t have sex every other day, that I’m always pointing what he’s doing wrong. idk call me crazy but I think I’m the problem and I feel disgusted to myself and feel that I lost myself so bad. I don’t even find me attractive anymore.
Show your support
You and I are exactly in the same boat! I’m going through the same thing, at least your partner respects you….. mine treats me like trash 💔
Sex is absolutely important in a relationship. It's about so many things - feeling good about yourself, making your partner feel good, connecting with them on the most intimate level. Have you had a proper conversation with him and explained how you are feeling? I would not jump to leaving because of this. You've said yourself his past relationships may have impacted him and this may go deeper than you realise. Obviously that doesn't take away from how it is making you feel though. Perhaps you would benefit from both individual and couples therapy if he would be open to this? X
Trending in our community
You need to leave him !! A man should make you feel wanted . May sound strange to you but sex is very important in a relationship, if one don’t get it they’ll find it somewhere