I need some guidance please

I can feel the weight of what you’re carrying and I just want to remind you that God’s love and grace are bigger than our doubts. Throughout the Bible we see that God brings life in so many ways, even in circumstances that seem impossible. He opens wombs, He heals, and He provides in ways we can’t always understand. ❤️ Your baby is a gift, fearfully and wonderfully made, and nothing about that is outside of God’s hands! If you ever feel guilt or uncertainty, bring it to Him in prayer. He hears you, He loves you and He will guide your heart. You are loved, your child is loved, and His grace covers all things. 👏

Thank you so much for your words and wisdom ❤️ I truly appreciate it

God loves your child and you and your husband and will forgive us where we fail & repent. Unfortunately, I believe that IVF is unnatural at best and inhumane at worst (in cases where embryos are kept frozen for years or decades & where others are discarded even though they are alive in God's eyes) - just because something CAN be or does happen, doesn't mean that it was God's will or that it was what He intended. We see man's perversion of God's plan every day. It doesn't make it right in His eyes. Everyone has free will

In my eyes too, which was one of the reasons why we proceeded to transfer the next and plan on transferring the other. I wouldn’t forgive myself for discarding them as I too see that it’s inhumane, and would feel like I’m essentially discarding a human baby. I believed it’s gods will if he wants these babies to come into the world.

Children are born with issue everyday that are conceived naturally. God makes no mistake. My son’s testicles kept not staying down and was told he may not be able to have children. We have prayed over our son they now have stayed down without surgery. Just pray over ur son.

Thank you cryss I was talking about my husband I’m so sorry I want clear about that He was the one with the issue to conceive which made us go through with IVF We were graced by God with one living daughter who is now almost 17 months old And I thank him all the time for this beautiful miracle ❤️

It’s important to always pray to God first, seek Him and allow God to lead you and give you the green light before doing something. That said, I do not believe what you guys did was a sin. & since you didn’t ask God first, even if it was an issue, God would forgive you. The only unforgivable sin is the blasphemy of the Holy Spirit and IVF has nothing to do with that. God wants all of his children to be fruitful and have children. So your husband’s fertility issues aren’t a punishment. It’s a consequence of the fall of man and Jesus died to break the curse of sin over our lives. Therefore, it is God’s will that your husband is healed from his issues. God is the one who puts the spirit and soul of the person inside the womb, therefore your child’s spirit was put there by Yahweh.