Women issue

It can be normal post partum but if your youngest is already almost 3 it should be pretty much back to normal by now. I would go to your OB and see about your hormone levels.

Are you guys spending enough time in foreplay? I agree with checking hormones but also, while a man can get aroused fairly quickly, a woman’s body often needs more time than just 10 minutes… sometimes it’s even hours throughout the day of build up and subtle seduction because stress will dry you up like no body’s business. But if your man is attending to your needs throughout the day on a regular basis so that your stress levels are lower… you might find a difference.

@Janis Girl I think it’s stress too

@Miranda my baby is 1yr old already

Have you guys ever tried dancing together before sexy time? Like putting on music that gets you in the mood and dancing in the kitchen or wherever you have room? Sometimes that closeness without the immediate expectation of sex can really be helpful to reducing stress and getting you in the mood. It’s also beneficial to your mind