I feel your pain . My bf wants to help with our 8 month old as lil as possible. Whenever he wants to eat or do anything i need to get her but somehow im able to do those thing while having her . He never ask me if i need a break and i feel guilty for asking for one so i get no breaks . It can be exhausting especially when dad is living in the home . We do both work so he does have her some parts of the day but he just lets he watch tv all day which i don’t like . Men can be very frustrating, they use the fact that we are women we should have baby more but we also need a lil time to ourselves.
It’s annoying. It’s also more than my husband does and I work full time in the office and get saddled with all the housework. I have 2 toddlers.