I need to vent

So my sister in law an brother are due in short few months. As a mom already since a young age I know becoming a parent is hard. The hard reality of it also. I love my kids ten fold and no matter how much I thought I could prepare for my kids I never did. There was no preparation. There was no saving money or making sure my car was good or making sure I had child care this is all things that are so hard to plan before child even here. An as one parent trying to prepare another parent for the hard reality of this thing called life they have such false hope for when there baby is here and I’m at the point where I’m done speaking my mind and the truth about the reality of children. Im gonna stand and support as much as possible but when everything I tried to prepare them for falls apart bc they have it under control I’m gonna just stand there and unfortunately watch it all unfold and now I have to be the bigger person and be that should without being that I warned u or told u so person. All I’m trying to do is prepare them for the reality of bringing a child into the world and that stressing all these things aren’t gonna get u anywhere right now. Stress the today problems not the future problems. Sorry my vents over