How do I fix this? 😣

Wow your bf is an absolute prick i would say leave him but thats not my place...

first of all it’s only been a week, give your daughter more time to adjust because it’s a huge life change for her too! have patience with her and yourself your bf sounds absolutely awful. if my man said that to me a week postpartum id be very tempted to slap him. he needs to be taking care of you and im so sorry he’s not. you gotta make sure you’re eating and taking care of yourself so you can heal. give yourself time and patience girl. focus on yourself and your kids. there’s no instant fix unfortunately, just time and adjustment to your new normal. you got this ❤️

I don’t think they’re something wrong with you. I think it’s normal to be angry or resentful with the little things. I was super angry too when I was newly postpartum mad over little things like my cat running or waking up the baby. I think when you are in a vulnerable time or feel stressed, you’re prone to being upset over small things or in general. I had a hard labor too and nerve damage. It’s also more stressful when you don’t have emotional support

You need to heal physically and mentally. Eat healthy to get your energy up and it’s better to breakup with your bf. Cuz he’s supposed to make you happy and support you. You might think you have to stay with him so your daughter has a dad, but she will see that you’re unhappy and understand it when she’s older. And think it’s ok for a guy to treat her like that and not care about her

I’m with the other comment on this. You need to prioritize yourself right now, and make sure you’re healing properly. It’ll take time for your four-year-old to adjust, it’s only been a week, don’t beat yourself too hard about it. I don’t believe there’s anything wrong with you. I believe your boyfriend should go, there is an absolutely no reason for him to be upset with you for not giving him head when you’re a weak postpartum. That is completely inconsiderate, and then not cooking you food or helping you with anything? That is ridiculous. Your partner supposed to be there for you in sickness and health , and there is absolutely no reason for him to be so ignorant about it. He needs to understand that this is a hard journey. But if he can’t do that, if he’s that childish, I’d say kick him to the curb, or have a very serious conversation with him. There’s nothing wrong with you girlie. You’re doing great, cut yourself some slack, give it time, be gentle with yourself. Much love, girl.