No. You're not wrong to think the way you're thinking. It's very obvious that she doesn't see you at the same level of friendship at all. In fact it sounds like she's only using you when in need for her owns needs etc. You're better off without them. Sorry to hear that you're going through this. Been there myself.
My ex bff was like that, literally so many ways but yeah I cut her off after she invited my mom to her wedding but not even responding to me asking the date🫠 her reason was she thought it would be a hassle and we have kids and her wedding is no kids. She didn’t tell me that tho, my mom did. We were family friends sister type since before I was 1 and she was born smh. You’re NOT the asshole, do you and you’ll feel better off not feeling pathetic when she doesn’t respond back like a friend 🤷🏻♀️
Cutting friends is so incredibly hard, but sometimes it's necessary. I cut out a friend nearly 7 years ago and I still think about her sometimes and wish things could have been different. But she showed me who she was and I believed her. Unfortunately that meant the end of the friendship.
It sounds like the friendship has already run its course she clearly doesn’t see you as a close friend anymore and isn’t bothering to make an effort to keep you as friend maybe just take some space leave things be and when the time comes maybe you guys can come back to it
I have a friend who I considered my best friend, who I'm no longer friends with really as she no longer makes an effort with me since getting with her latest bloke & also since she made friends with my sister again, who has no children so can go out drinking whenever she likes. If it is all one-sided, then don't feel guilty for ending the friendship.
No, some people only want you when they’re having a hard time and have no one else - if you’re getting nothing out of the friendship then it’s time to say bye bye!
Nope! Unfortunately this sometimes happens with friendships and I have learnt that it is really important to put boundaries in place… especially after having my son I have been more mindful about my friendship circle. Do not feel guilty. Trust your gut. Friendships should feel reciprocal and not out of balance. Don’t worry about those who don’t worry about you.
If it’s causing you more negativity than positivity, cut her off. Your mental health is too important and you can give your time/energy to other things!
No she clearly doesn’t see you the same way you see her. She is just using you and it sounds like it is time to cut ties. Friendships should go both ways. And it’s sad that she is hanging out with people that don’t even care about her. You sound like a great friend and I hope that you find someone whose energy match.