Idk Am I Wrong?!!
My man does a good job with the baby, but when I tell you I can count on less than one hand the amount of times we’ve have sex in months is crazyyy. I’m feeling wild insecure because when we first met we was going crazy but when I got pregnant and he got caught up in legal trouble it’s like I got the shitty end of the stick of things. Then he was locked up the remainder of the end of my pregnancy so he wasn’t present for the baby birth nor the first two months of the baby life. He was really talking a lot over that phone about what we’ll do and the plans but once he got home it was a whole different story. I just don’t think he’s attracted as much to me and only putting up with me because it’s a place to lay his head so he wouldn’t have to go back to his mom. I really need this motivation to lose this weight and get my confidence back so I can get the courage to tell him to go. I can’t be in a relationship where I feel a person isn’t attracted to me nor any sex you crazy as hell. Am I Wrong???
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@Terra I did that I told this man I didn’t feel beautiful and i couldn’t even get the reassurance in that conversation.
I think it’s normal for a man to not want sex if he’s going thru legal, financial or relationship issues. Some men are like that & mine is like that too took me forever to understand it because I was used to having sex all the time when we first got together 😂
It sounds like you've both been through a lot and it's worth noting that stress and mental health can have a huge impact on sex drive. Personally if mine drops even a bit i completely lose mine and its never been anything against any of the partners I've been with
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If you hadn't already talked to him about how you're feeling and your insecurities you should. And this next part is specifically something me and my partner discussed which I think all couples should and that's what you find attractive in each other and how to maintain that.