Partner awake all night and I leave for work early
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@Sophie right. Also 9 years ago my first son’s father used to stay up all night (doing much worse-drug related stuff) and then be cranky all day to the baby. I admit I initially felt a trauma response seeing he was up all night last night. He is nothing like my first kids father and sure you deserve to stay up but till almost 4am? Probably not. I don’t want the baby suffering for his actions and maybe he won’t but what will happen is he needs a nap the minute I get home from working all day so it’s just frustrating to be away all day and then immediately take on the load of the baby dinner and my oldest when he has all day to watch the anime lmao 🤣 he could have slept last night instead
Ya dude sounds young AF and immature...like he needs a stern talking to from his father or yours. So he can grow up and be a better help to you .. You are wayyy better than me .. because remotes to the TV and cords to games would be m.i.a and no babe don't cave and give it back. Idk some girls have babies with boys and expect these little boys to be men. If he wasn't showing you everything he's showing you now before that would be different but I can tell he's the same person now as he was when you met him.Why are you shocked that he's doing the same as before? You should have addressed it before you even had a child with him what you expect from him and the role he has as a man not as a boy. But if you allowed it for this long why would he change now? Looks like you're stuck with a guy whose priorities are screwed up. He needs a life coach and an overdue wake up call. If you have in laws talk to his church pastor or mom and dad and have them straighten him up.Speak up& Stand up for yourself from now on!
That's irresponsible especially when there's no other adult around to share the load. You should be able to trust your baby is safe with someone who isn't being impacted by self-imposed self deprivation while you work.