I was planning on leaving him but…
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He made his choice to drive drunk. He can deal with the consequences.
Sounds like the perfect time to leave. I’d tell his family to check in on him, but I’d bounce.
I would leave and have his family checked up on him. I would only inquire about his health/recovery through his family for the sake of the child. But other than that, he shouldn't be your concern. He's made his bed, and he has to lie in
Now imagine he was driving drunk and the outcome was different - he was in jail rather than the hospital because the person he hit was in the hospital. Decision would be no different for me. Byeeee.
Leaving on April fool’s day!!🤭🤭🤭 I like your style 😏
Oh my God if nothing else do it for the rest of us that is the most perfect set up
Please continue on with your plan & let me tell you why ..if he was abusive before his accident, he'll continue to be . He'll use you as a caregiver to nurse him back to health and once his health improves, he'll continue to abuse you with no appreciation. And you'll feel 10 times worse afterwards. Let him figure it out on his own. Prioritize yourself for once
@Missy yes that’s true. Now since his accident he’s being all nice before the accident I was the worse person and terrible mom
Yup .that's what they do..it's a manipulation tactic...don't fall for it...
This is ur happiness & sanity you’re talking about here & NOTHING should prevent you from getting that. I’m sure guilt is eating u n ur thinking if u leave like this ur a horrible person with no heart. Just remember y ur leaving n the first place & everything he has done to you over ur time spent 2gether. All the things that have led up to your final breaking point that have u wanting to end the relationship. It’s all those things that r not fair to you! It’s what he should b feeling guilty of u have no reason to feel guilty AT ALL! Don’t let him or anyone brow beat u or make u feel any kinda way bc ur leaving him n a precarious situation. He caused his own situation all by himself now he can deal all by himself. If u don’t leave now ur always gonna find a reason or a situation to keep u there a lil longer.
@Jennifer thanks I needed this.
He was driving drunk, that's no sympathy 🤷♀️