Baby falling

Before I write what I’m gunna say he is absolutely fine I called 111 straight away and he’s ok. Today my baby fell off the bed and I’m swallowed with guilt. He fell about half a metre onto wood flooring and I feel like the worst mother in the world. I will never forget the sound he made and I can’t even look at that spot on the floor without getting an overwhelming feeling of guilt and pure sadness. He cried straight away but was comforted within seconds of me picking him up but I feel terrible he’s almost 7 months old. I burst out into tears with him which made him laugh at me 🫠 he was giggiling and laughing ten minutes later with his dad while I was on the phone to 111. I don’t know how to get rid of this feeling and I don’t think I ever will. I just can’t get the image of him on the floor out my head
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Please don't worry, you aren't alone. For those whose babies haven't had a fall, they likely will soon. It's just what happens when they start moving. Whether it's off a bed, a sofa or falling whilst sitting/standing/walking and hitting the floor, a table or anything! The fact you are so concerned, worried and consumed with guilt shows you are a fantastic loving mum. As long as they are fine, laughing, smiling, not being sick and not extra sleepy then they are fine. As my sister tells me, babies are a little bit bouncy. Please try and tell yourself you and your baby are fine. Sending you some cuddles of hope that you can forget 💜

Thank you so much I really appreciate that 🩵 it’s so hard when it’s the first time something like this happens

It truly is, but don't be so hard on yourself. Sounds like you're doing an amazing job and being a perfect mummy 😊

We've all had this happen, you aren't a bad mum. My August baby hasn't fallen yet but my son did a few times. It will just make you more careful but the main thing is that your baby is ok

My first baby fell off a sofa at 5 months I didn't realise she could roll. My 2nd bumped her head on the coffee table the other day by rolling into it. It happens to everyone at some point x

Mine fell off the changing table and I had the exact same feelings as you but was reassured by seeing how my son bounced back so quickly. I was mindful of signs of concussion and took him to a&e and all was well. I got the sense from the drs that this happens a lot! For me the guilt feeling passed over a few weeks- and it was a lesson to us not to leave him alone on there, even for a second to get a toy!

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