Handling toddler with hyperemesis

I am 18 weeks pregnant and I am having hyperemesis.This is my second pregnancy. In the first trimester it was hell I only wanted to rest and still do I'm on anti sickness medication. I want to ask you all how are you managing a toddler in pregnancy. My 3 year old now only wants to sit with me she has increased screen time and socially awkward because we didn't go out due to my conditions. Its just me and my husband and her when my husband is working she is there with me all the time and I don't have energy to play with her so she ends up watching some cartoons and not want to go out. I feel so guilty that have a ruined my 3 year old girl 😔
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No advice really sorry but wanted to say you’re not alone.. I am in the same boat, it’s awful. I’m only a week ahead of you at 19 weeks, and I’m having to force myself to go back to work because I just can’t afford to be off sick. I just keep telling myself that it isn’t forever! My toddler is a bit younger than your child, at 21 months. I just try and do things whilst my partner is at home. My symptoms have eased a little.. but I’m still taking ordansetron 3x a day.. and I asked to take more medication to control nausea but the Gp said I can’t take anything along side it. But I just try and get activities we can do together from the sofa or I sit and play at his kitchen or train table, read books. And nap with him :) xx

I am in the same boat I have a two year old and a four year old. It’s been aweful, and the mom guilt is worse. My four year old said to me this morning “are you really starting the day throwing up again mom? You throw up too much!” Like girl I know it! Today I set up their water table with shaving cream to play with, small victories is all I can do. We eat way more snacks than nutritional food, and watch way too much tv otherwise!

Honestly if you can, sign her up for a Gymboree class or something similar. Let your partner take her on the day he has off. They have like preschool prep classes where they learn more educational things, art classes, and tons of others. It’ll help with the mom guilt. There’s probably some toddler sport classes in your neighborhood or have your husband take her to toddler library classes on the weekends. It’ll also give you time to rest more. Resting while watching her is not the same as complete rest. Even if she’s watching tv. You need sleep and silence when going through hg and she needs some interaction.

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