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I do this to even if my partner is holding our son I just take him from him it’s just natural instinct you hear your baby cry and instantly want to soothe them I’m trying my best not to interfere when his dad is hold him and it happen but anyone else he’s my son at the end of the day and myself and his dad know how best to style him
Step 1 : don’t care how others feel in that moment , the priority is ensuring your baby is settled and not how others feel about you taking YOUR baby to settle her. Step 2: settle your baby and don’t care about how annoyed others are including your MIL. BEING a mum herself . She should understand. Even sometimes my baby can get very fussy with his dad and all he really just wants is me. And immediately I get him, he settles down. Sometimes babies just want mummy and that’s enough reason.
I do the exact same thing 🤣 if it's a kid I just usually tell them if it gets too much hand her over to me, and they usually do when she starts screeching 😂
I take baby back to me . I really DGAF if it upsets the other person 🤣
I’m sorry but no one can settle a screaming baby better than their mum and babies know when their mums aren’t holding them! Don’t care what anyone thinks take your baby back when YOU want , let others be annoyed that’s their weird problem and if they are annoyed by taking your own child I wouldn’t give the baby back after he settles lol
I'd be handling it the same as you, taking my baby back to soothe her
How are you feeding? If BF “oh she needs boobie!” Always works for me 🤣 or maybe if they’re not managing to settle her just “I’ll settle her then you can have her back if you like.” Why anyone thinks they can settle a baby better than mama I’ll never know!