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Yeah I can approach it I just need to wording without getting in my feelings and approach it calmly
I would definitely try to bring it up in a way that doesn’t include mentioning your son at all. Maybe like someone saw them out at a store or in public together if you think that might work! Also trying to remain calm is the hardest part, but is definitely the most important and if the conversation is not going anywhere then it’s always okay to walk away and try again at another time! The hardest part is that a lot of courts don’t care either about things like that. So if you guys have visitation or anything set up through the court, they are often no help unless the woman is a proven danger to your child. They will tell you to move on and that just like you can have anyone around your son, he has the same right. I hope it all works out for you mama!
If you can communicate with the father of your child calmly then try and talk to him. But keep in mind that if you tell him you know she’s around your son because your son told you then that could be a problem. He might try and tell your son to keep secrets or something. Maybe ask him in a way that doesn’t implicate your son tell you.