Is it normal for me to feel this way?

Long story short, I have a girlfriend that had her baby just 4 months after me. From pregnancy up until now, she's been messaging me to ask me everything and ESPECIALLY for products that I bought for my baby. Shes been pretty much asking me the weirdest most irrelevant shit like 'if I invited my close relatives to my baby shower or just friends'. Like why the hell does it matter what I do? Do what what YOU wanna do... then she asks about whether or not I took the regular/ extended maternity leave, which stroller i bought, what highchair i bought, how much my baby drank at xx month. She also likes to end up bashing/commenting on all of the stuff I tell her but ends up buying it. This is only a few of the unusual questions she had asked me.. the list goes on and on. Is it wrong of me to feel annoyed of her and not want to reply her or tell her? Like why cant she do her own fucking research instead of using me as her encyclopedia? She never even gives me credit for what I do tell her shit and pretends like SHE found the product herself/researched about it herself. Ugh

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I would just talk to her,but I'd definitely be annoyed and probably not respond very quickly.

Depends how close and how long yall been friends, but even at that it's wierd IMO

I had a friend like this. We JUST became friends and she asked what hospital I delivered at and I told her and she was asking questions she easily could’ve googled about the hospital and asking what dr I saw. Like girl, do your own research and find a dr for YOU. we’re not friends anymore

I don’t think it’s weird. If I see my mom bought something on our shared Amazon account I’ll ask her if she likes it or recommends it. Like I have the same baby gate she got for her dogs. 🤣

@Terra I tried ignoring her and she still didn't get the hint.. She would still message me another day with either another question OR to re ask the same question..

@janel we've been friends for about 8 years now. And Right?! I tried ignoring her also but she would just message me again with either more questions or ask the questions that I ignored her from

@Ali THANK YOU for validating my beings. I keep asking myself if im the bad person here or if its my postpartum hormones but literally.. do your own damn research right? I never harassed anyone with questions and did my own research for whatever I wasn't sure about.. glad im not the only one!

@Justice oh for sure I definitely wouldn't mind if my mom or sister asked me for recommendations or opinions 😂 but this girl literally always asks for my recos and doesn't give any credit or anything. She would pretend like SHE found out about the product 'long' time ago. EXAMPLE: She asked me if I had bought a travel stroller yet and if so, which one? So I told her yes, I got the bugaboo butterfly.. she then proceeds to tell me that she's looking at the GB pockit and if I've heard about it. So I tell her my honest thoughts about it and that I heard it doesn't last long. Few days later, I see her writing in a maternity Facebook group that's she's debating on which travel stroller to get. The Uppababy Minu or Bugaboo Butterfly. Like WTF?? She never mentioned about wanting the butterfly before now she does?! Then she just messaged me 2 days ago that her aunt 'SURPRISED' Her with the butterfly. 🙄 So annoyed...

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