Vent about SIL
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He is pretty clueless. I think he sees parts of it like the car thing cause it was his car. But other pieces he is oblivious.
I'd be giving her 1 warning then kicking her out if she doesn't shape up. That's awful.
That would piss me off so bad
I feel like it just gets worse. Like something happens and we nicely brush it off, then something else happens. It’s just this terrible cycle. I have tried to tell my fiancé we need her gone but he doesn’t want to because it’s his sister and in a state she doesn’t know well. But here’s my thing. She is 31 and a grown adult
Omg…I pray that she at least works. What about talking to your fiancé about giving her a cut off time. What ever you are comfortable with but for example, giving her 6 months to move out because you guys just had a baby and you 3 need space to grow as a family.
Kick her out girl! Not something a postpartum person should be dealing with!
If your husband doesn’t want to, I’d simply say me or her ✌️ and leave if it’s her. You’re married to him. He should know your happiness comes first.
I have tried to ask to put a time table on it and he agrees she needs to be out but like we can’t necessarily agree on when. Like I’d ideally want her out before we get married next month so we can come home to the house just the three of us. But I know that isn’t super possible and I get that. The big issue for him is he is trying to build the relationship back up with her and he thinks that doing this is what’s best. Thankfully she does work and is going to school but still doesn’t contribute to anything around our house.
That’s so freaking annoying. Especially with new baby I’m sorry 😩 is he annoyed by his sister too? Like does he see her behavior or is he kinda clueless?