Not telling best friends

I completely know what you mean. I’m 9 weeks and feel the same way.

I gave up and told people this weeks (I’m just short of 10wks). If something happens it’s happens I can’t be arsed with the I said x to this person and x to that . Too much to think about when I’m knackered 🤣

I told my best friends a few days after I found out, I wasn’t going to but in reality they’re gunna be the ones to support me through the hardest few weeks. Even if “something bad happens” I’d rather them help me cope with that, plus I’m not keen on lying and if they didn’t tell me till after 12 weeks I’d be so upset 🤣 as we tell eachother everything Ultimately though you need to do whatever feels right for you, if you aren’t ready to tell them then don’t, maybe avoid talking about sickness and symptoms, or tell them you’ve had norovirus so they don’t pinpoint and assume so it helps with all the questions etc (which is hard I know lol!) ❤️❤️❤️

I had previous losses so I’ve told my closest friends & family. I guess it’s weighing up what’s the harm / risks in them knowing what’s going on now - if you trust they won’t spread the news further then I’d say just share with them so they can support you on this part of your journey 💜

My bestfriend was on a video and read the test with me 😂 other than her I've only told one friend and planning to not tell anyone till I randomly have a third child with me

I miscarried my last baby at 6 weeks (found out at 8 week scan) so this time I’ve told friends and family who I want to know as I need their support now and telling them won’t change a pregnancy outcome but can make you stress less and have people to speak too x x