in May 2023 Babies 🇬🇧

Feel like all I do is tell her off

My LG is nearly 2 and all I seem to do lately is say to her " stop whinging" " why aren't you listening to me" " stop screaming"... I feel like since the last 2 months she's doing things to really piss me off? And I'm jist constantly telling her off. Even when we go the park or somewhere nice the minute we have to leave she has a meltdown and ruins the nice day we had. All I ever wanted was a little girl but I just think the calm happy little girl I used to have has gone and I've got a tantrum, fueled nearly 2 year old that likes to push the boundaries and whinge 24/7. It's draining everyday. I hate moaning I love her so much but everyday I just feel so drained from the constant whinging etc. Does this end?

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I’m in the exact place with my little girl. It’s all day non stop no matter how much I try to change the day up to make it more fun and adventurous something always makes her have a meltdown.. it’s draining

@Sandra yup exactly same as me. Just has meltdowns over the silliest things and if she doesn't get her own way it's crazy. Took her the park and it's like I'm walking in with a sweet lovely child and when it's time to leave im leaving with a posed evil child 🤣🙈

Walk away and ignore it when it escalates or stop the activity. I find this minimizes the tantrum

Ugh we all living the same toddler life

@Jadie I think totally depends on temperament. Walking away escalates my LO massively but sitting nearby and waiting for a few min before redirecting to something interesting is the only way for me to help him get over it. If I walk away my LO literally projectile vomits he gets so distressed! 😩

Its the constant whinging it's driving me mad no matter how much she is interacted with, or doing something she just still whinges and it drives me mad 🙈

@Becca ahh thank you! Will follow the page For mine, she is a massive crib sleeper and has never slept in pram so thats fun 😅

@Jadie unfortunately doesn’t work for my little one she just says bye and and walks the other way or completely ignores

Same!! My LB goes from 0 to 100 and it's relentless sometimes! I also have a 6 week old to add to the mix 🤪

@Jade I have a 6 month old, she's constantly smacking him, she throws his dummy on the floor, she snatches his toys off him 🙈🙈 but im sure she loves him really 🤣🤣

The whinging is just too much😩

@Elishia tell me about it

Literally just came on here to see if anyone else is struggling with it as much as I am!!!! It's constant, feels like she's doing it to get a reaction from me and as someone who has bloody battled with mum rage, I do snap sometimes then feel so horrid after. I also have a 12 week old that has only just stopped waking every hour 🙃 send help lol x

Exact same position over here it’s horrendous I also have an 11 week old baby and it’s just so hard

I thought it was just my daughter, it whining I don’t like doesn’t matter where we go she’s whining😩 x

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