Holding a pencil properly

Does anyone's little one struggle to hold a pencil properly. Been trying to teach him and it's a lot harder than it looks haha. He keeps wanting to hold the very top which makes it awkward. He knows how to spell his name so been trying to get him to put it to paper. He's never really been in to sitting and drawing lots. Prefers his chalk so maybe he's just better with thicker pens. Will be normal skinny pencils when he goes to school though. Right?
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Usually a sign that they’d benefit from longer working on all the fine motor skills that come before tripod pencil grip. And normal at this age to still use whole hand grip when using a mark making tool. If he’s not really been into sitting and drawing, I probably wouldn’t go straight in with name writing, especially if he’s finding it tricky, there’s lots of other shapes and patterns that can help with pencil control and dexterity. If you’re keen to keep trying, pencil grips can help with positioning and encouraging tripod hold. Usually the writing tools in eyfs are chunkier pencils and colouring pencils at the beginning, and still using chalks and other mark making tools.

@Chloe thank you. Still as an adult I don't use the total correct grip for writing. Xx

You may also get on better with a whiteboard, pencil to paper gives very different sensory feedback than mark making on other surfaces, and sometimes children can find a whiteboard easier (and you can get nice chunky pens to help too!)

My son does exactly this and he has little interest in any kind of drawing but he will do it on etch sketch or water mats so I know he has the ability to make the marks but yeah holding a pencil is not his forte lol. I've been reassured it's common in boys though 🤷🏼‍♀️

@Eli ah good to know, yes Oliver the same xx

Thanks ladies. Great tips xx

Apparently some kids try loads of different ways of holding pencils up to age of 5 then it just clicks.. so don't worry he will get there

My boy is the same Ruth. Not really interested in mark making or play dough

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