Postpartum

Please don’t girl your not alone I been where you are and I promise it it’s better. but you’re right your boys do need you but not only the boys you have something to offer this world and the world is a better place because of you and you have to fight. I’m glad that girl showed her true colors cause now you know where she stands, and she was never your friend as far as your boyfriend. You deserve better than that. I also had to learn that my village isn’t gonna always look like the traditional village sometimes it’s gonna look like Uber eats and laundry, service and After School and reaching out for alternative means of help I think if you’re ready to move on from your boyfriend, you need to breathe the idea of the relationship in the family wants and start being open to something because I promise you have something great is gonna come out of this if you don’t give up

Hey mama bear🥹❤️ I don’t know you but this hurts so much, and specially with the gap years of your little boys I know it will be a lot… but u got this! Do what’s best for you and your babies! They need you and you need them! They are your strength and your rock, if the father doesn’t want to see the worth of his family then let him go, I know is easier said than done, but sometimes we have to save ourselves mentally and physically as women…

And you never alone, I know this app sometimes it will feel weird talking to strangers but sometimes it’s actually a relief that’s needed❤️🥹 and I’m one of the strangers who you can message at anytime.

@Caprice when I say I want to give up I don’t mean I want to die. I just mean that I don’t have energy to do anything besides sleep and do nothing. But I have three beautiful babies that need me to keep pushing forward. I just don’t know how. I have been giving myself a migraine most days because I’m so stressed.

@Daniella we split up when our oldest was 2 and I got pregnant with my middle son and his father left and I got back with my oldest father got pregnant again. Then he goes and cheats emotionally on me while I’m pregnant and tells me I need to work on myself and go to therapy and get meds. But when I tell him he can’t help me. So when I finally left him this time it took so much from me and I just and having troubles moving on. We split up like a week before my youngest was born. He is a good father to the three of them when he takes them.

@Daniella I just feel like Im bothering everyone so I am afraid to reach out. So that’s why I posted anonymous. I live with my mom, step dad and younger siblings. But I don’t want to talk to them about it because then the whole family will know everything and I’m already the black sheep of the family

Call or text 988. Even if you don't think you're quite at that point, they can listen and maybe provide resources in your local area. https://988lifeline.org

@Audrey I see a therapist every week. I’m always “talking” but it’s not the same. I still feel so alone.

You are not alone ! Please message anytime or text me 5852016915. PPD sucks I was alone felt so alone but couldn’t leave my sweet girl either

@Gee I’m trying this week has been very hard on me

I understand completely, please feel free to message me anytime even if it’s just vent it all out and cry I’m here