labour experience

How do i go about getting all my notes from labour? I had quite a traumatic time and have struggled since giving birth with anxiety and feeling very low. Sometimes even feel detached and numb and like my baby is not mine. Then i see her smile and it’s not so bad but i’ve not went a single day without crying and have had nightmares and panic attacks since birth. I hide it mostly but seeing anyone hold my girl is hard. I obsess over her breathing and check multiple times and hardly sleep from staring at her too. I just want to be able to read everything that happened and then talk to a doctor or someone as I feel 6 weeks down the line I shouldn’t be feeling this bad still. I love my girl so much and i’m trying my best to not waste these moments and make memories but it is hard when i am struggling so much myself and feel so alone (my partner is wonderful but it’s just something he could never understand)
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I believe you would submit a request to the hospital administrator and they are required to provide them to you by law depending on where you live. In Canada civil suits must be laid within 2 years if you wanted to sue

@Molly im in the UK, i probably should of said that but 100% might be looking into some sort of compensation as should never of gone through what i went through and im mentally struggling so much still because of it

Find the health records department for your hospital and email requesting access to your birth records. I found the relevant email address for my hospital on Google. It can take a long time though, I requested mine months ago (July 2024) and they've said I could be waiting another 2 months still! X

@Izzy thank you!

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