Hey, i was raised by my mum and grandparents and my parents were never married. My father told my mum that if she wants to have me she has to manage herself. My mum pushed for my dad to be ‘involved’ in my life, so he was there sometimes but not really there at all. It would have been so much easier for me if he was never there. So from my personal childhood experience I strongly suggest to leave it. Having forced contact with a father who doesn’t want you is much worse than having no contact at all.
Leave it, he’s made it clear how he feels. Let me tell you from experience that no dad in your life is better than a nasty useless one! All your baby needs is people who love Him around him, and he already has that with you. 💕
Hey mama - you are amazing ! I know you are looking out for your little one, but your son is better off living a beautiful life with you and your family that love him so much than even have the slightest hint of the existence of his biological father who resents him. Please look after yourself . I would be concerned that this man could prove dangerous given he wanted you to terminate the pregnancy. He has been quite clear from the start. Let it go! I know your up bringing was a contrast to this , but remember you are wonderful and the last person your son should ever get to know is this person who is nothing but only a biological connection . Plenty of parents raise their children alone and are fantastic at it . Hope you have all the support you need . All the best x
Leave it
Leave it. This man told you he wanted no involvement multiple times. I understand it is sad and frustrating but he let you know beforehand