Groups of mums friends

I have a mom friend group and nope, we are chill and supportive!

I have a group. We chat daily and I see them weekly, coz they’re all single and coparenting I’m the only one married out of 5 lol and the BD’s have the kids one weekend so that’s a kid-free meet at night, and then the next week we meet w kids during the day. We’re not bitchy at all 🙂 they are really amazing women.

From my experiences yes. I went to a baby group when my youngest son was born and the cliques formed pretty quickly and nobody made an effort with me only one lady did and she eventually ghosted me. I just can’t be bothered anymore because it’s pathetic

I avoid them, when I go to playgroups I can see the judgement on some women’s face and it’s even worse because I’m not from around there at all (completely different country). Like I went to a soft play over Christmas and I had moms look at me out the corner of their eyes with disgust when they saw my tattoos. I can’t be assed trying to make friends with people like that so I really don’t bother. Even at playgroups we end up playing off to the side alone

@Sarah I’m sorry you had that problem. One of my gfs in the group is covered w Tatts and as an Asian we tend to get even more looks, the Asian elders are very judgemental and don’t care about being judgemental, she expressed to me how she wanted to laser off her chest tattoos coz of the looks she gets I keep trying to tell her she’s beautiful as she is and the people that love her and in her life already don’t care, also it’s gonna cost her $6k which is not cheap. I dunno if she’ll do it I’m trying to talk her out of it but she’s adamant one day she wants to.

@Kellie awww thats so sad she feels the need to do that 🥺

I went to an organized mom‘s group, and it was very judgmental and the women gaslit me. I’ve since met a few other moms locally that have all been wonderful and supportive and we do lots of activities and outings together.