Pregnant without actual sex??
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I think 4 tests are hard to argue with! It’s rare but it can happen. (Or any chance of maybe a drunken night you’ve forgotten about 🤷🏽♀️) Not everyone gets symptoms or they can come a bit later if you’ve only just skipped your period. Trip to the docs is probably best to get some definite answers.
You can’t physically be pregnant without sperm, so something happened if you are. If you’re adamant it hasn’t I’d get an appointment with the Drs to run bloods etc.
Whaddyamean you’ve not had penetrative sex with your husband?
Have you had a miscarriage recently? Or given birth recently?
So when I said he’s *you know* on me , just for clarity guys, he basically did it right at the entrance of my cervix. It wasn’t in, but just at the entrance. This is why I’m not like, super super shocked but I’m still quite shocked because isn’t sperm meant to travel deep to get someone pregnant??
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If he ejaculated at your cervix it was penetrative sex as that’s the barrier to your womb and that’s 100% gonna get you pregnant. Do you mean he finished on your external labia? Cause there’s always a chance
Ok mystery solved! The title should probably be ‘pregnant with actual sex’ 😅 I mean they can swim and can live for days even if it was a slightly longer journey!
The sperm obviously found its way in
@Sarah yes sorry! Not the best with female anatomy 🥲 yes that’s why I’m confused because it genuinly wasn’t PE narrative sex he just ejaculated on the inner labia, not actually inside the vaginal entrance.
I personally didn’t have pregnancy symptoms till the mid second trimester with either of my pregnancies. The only reason I even found out I was pregnant with my first was because I was in the hospital with bronchitis and my second was because I had the smelliest farts out of nowhere like almost killed 3 adults on a roadtrip smelled bad & figured I should take a test. It’s not uncommon to not have symptoms.
Woaaaah, rare but possible! lol this was my biggest fear when I was a teen / young adult btw lol. One time when I was a teenager and new to everything i fully psyched myself out thinking I was pregnant because I had some on my hand and then before washing hands I used that hand to wipe after using the toilet. I told my boyfriend and he just laughed and said “I bet we’re fine. 😂”
the inner labia is risky business as some could’ve leaked down or entered when being wiped away.
yep it possible. the tiniest amount can get inside even if he finishes on the outside
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Could be a phantom pregnancy, a friend of mine had that. Preg test positive, 5 months later. Doctor and hospital appointments. And they confirmed no baby. Worth going to your GP or to A&E, ask them for help. They'll either do a scan or blood work. Most of the time they'll do both to find out what's going on and see if you are actually pregnant or not x
Oh yeah girl, if he ejaculated on your vulva that is more than enough to get pregnant. Whenever I was a teen I had a friend who was a virgin and only doing anal with her boyfriend and she got pregnant from the drip 🥹
Potentially you could actually be a few months pregnant and mistook implantation bleeding for your previous “period”? So if you had penetrative sex the previous month maybe you got pregnant then?
I’m 7 months pregnant and still don’t have any pregnancy symptoms, apart from a bump now! I didn’t believe I was actually pregnant until I started to feel movement at 22 weeks. It’s totally entirely possible you’ve got pregnant that way. Your husband has some determined sperm!
I had my daughter and never had PIV sex, so it's possible.
It's called a splash pregnancy and it's more common than you think ,sperm can be very strong so he must have strong swimmers,but yes it very possible to get pregnant if sperm is on the outside ...sperm can literally swim where It needs to go Edit: I just realised how silly this sounds because most of us know the cervix is inside,and even if you was to get sperm on the flaps of your vagina,you can still get pregnant too ..girl 🤨😆like sperm anywear near your cervix is pentration 🤦♀️
Damn those swimmers were strong 😯
Crazy learned something new today... congratulations!
The cervix is inside your vagina not on the outside. If you don’t understand your own anatomy then maybe you need to be more cautious when having sex.
The entrance of the cervix is inside, the vaginal canal is 2-3inches long and the cervix sits at the end of that. Anytime he wants to cum on me it’s always my lower belly/top of pubic area or my boobs it never ever touches my labia hence I’ve never gotten pregnant doing that. If he came anywhere near your vagina or labia then yes that sperm can make it’s way inside and be fertilised. So yeah it actually does make sense how you got pregnant.
This is so interesting, I never knew this could happen! Congratulations!
Immaculate conception lol 😇😜 Bt seriously after reading the thread I think we all know how u got pregnant. I’m commenting cuz I want women to know that sometimes we don’t all get the same sex education or understanding is not the same. Long story short; There is no such as safe sex; The only way to not get pregnant is to not have sex at all. This is a message to all females to all ages: everytime u have u sex unprotected or not u are at risk of getting pregnant.
This is a clickbait title. Sperm entered your vagina and now you have not one, not two, but FOUR positive pregnancy tests???!! That’s not even oral sex! That’s just regular sex!! Of course you’re pregnant!!
@Ciera it’s not click bait. It’s just lack of knowledge. My husband and I didn’t have penetrating sex but sperm was on my vagina, I was under the assumption it had to be deep inside for a woman to get pregnant. Hence why I asked how this is possible. If you don’t know then don’t assume the worst of people.
I would go and get checked out just in case - casualty this week was a positive pregnancy test but she wasn’t actually pregnant, it was another medical issue.
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Right. Well, the entrance of your cervix is all the way inside your vagina. So that counts as penetration. Are we doing some trolling today? Is that what we’re doing?
Even if sperm get on the vulvla which is the flaps of your vagina,you can definitely still get pregnant especially with stronger sperm , especially if your partner is between the ages of 20-27 as there sperm tends to be more mobile
@Sharon this is why I said lack of knowledge, I thought your cervix started at the entrance of your vagina so that’s why I said cervix but ofc it wasn’t my cervix
I just want to clear things up since people seem to think I’m trolling or it’s clickbait. 1- when I posted this, I said we did oral. I’ve always thought oral was anything apart from penetrating sex so even other intimate acts apart from penis inside vagina. 2- I naively thought the entrance of the cervix started at the entrance of the vagina hence why I said cervix. I have been told now that it isn’t and it’s actually way inside your vagina. Thank you for the people who are here to educate instead of bash other people x 3- so then clearly he didn’t ejaculate in my cervix but did on my labia which is why I said NO penetration happened! Which is why I was confused!!
A friend of mine from college got pregnant this way. Non-penetrative sex where he came near her labia and they did penetrative hand stuff not thinking that they got any cum in or near there but it somehow did since I loaned money to help pay for the abortion and drove her to her appointment.
😅 congrats, you are pregnant. Sperm entered your vagina and got through the cervix and into the fallopian tubes and fertilised the egg.
You can get pregnant if you wipe yourself with a towel that has sperm on it. If he ejaculated at your v’s entrance then that’s as good as penetrative sex. Sperm travels quickly and it doesn’t need to be deep, it can get there using any fluid. You’re definitely pregnant.
There is nothing confusing about the fact you got pregnant, especially when you said sperm got onto the labia..thats still a good chance for pregnancy to happen ... I wish some was more educated on sex before they do stuff without realising there was a possibility... Sperm are very fast and can fertilise an egg in seconds to minutes... I saw some comments like "wow that's amazing I didn't know that ,you learn something new everyday" ....like what😂🤦♀️ Im hearing crickets over here lol 😂
Why no sex for your husband lol. Anyway doesn’t matter congrats!!
@Holly it's mind boggling how many women have no clue about how reproducing, etc works. Its the lack of education for sure. Schools don't teach things properly and only ways people really find out how it does work is by doing it. But yea, like you say they travel fast and we know sperm can live up to 5 days in the woman's body so even if got wiped away, most would still have had enough time to travel up to their destination in the right conditions.
OP, I apologise. I should have recognised that good sex education is a privilege and not everyone has access to it growing up. I hope that the following websites, which I heavily urge you to read, will give you the knowledge you are lacking and allow you to take greater control of your sexual health and reproductive choices in future because everyone deserves to know about their own bodies - ideally *before* they get married and/or become sexually active. https://www.scarleteen.com https://www.brook.org.uk https://www.plannedparenthood.org https://www.pleasuremechanics.com
So you didnt have sex for a whole month? Or like a whole cycle?
😂
How did he work up to ejaculation? By penetration or his hand. If it was penetration, precum can get you pregnant, too. It's why the pull out method isn't recommended or reliable. Any sperm in, on, or around the labia/vagina can get you pregnant. You can also get pregnant by introducing fresh semen via your hand after removing a condom or touching semen and then being fingered or fingering yourself. So, no mystery here. How do you feel?
Sooo I’m lost…yall haven’t had penetrative sex period in the last 3 months
How many periods have you had postpartum? Or was your period regular before this? If you’ve taken 4 tests and they’re all positive… the odds are the tests aren’t lying