Baby dad involvement?
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I’ve not heard from mine since I was 6 weeks pregnant (now 31 weeks) he doesn’t even know the due date or gender but I’ve got a feeling he might try and get in contact once baby is here!
@Hollie im in this similiar situation and was thinking of sending him a scan photo with gender. But i doubt he will ever want involvement🤷♀️
My personal feeling is, if they wanted to know, they’d ask & make the effort to be involved. Mine tried to put pressure on me to have an abortion and when I met him the last time and said I’m not getting rid he said me and the baby had “ruined his life”. He’s blocked on social media but not from texting / WhatsApp or calls and I’ve not heard from him since. He won’t be told once the baby is here either, I’m sure he’ll hear it eventually but my main focus is bringing my little boy into the world and doing my best by him. Sorry if that’s not much help / advice to you it’s just how I’m doing things my side xx
@Hollie sounds just like my situation. He wanted me to have an abortion too and when i told him i couldnt go through with that, he said he wanted no involvement. He still has my number so im not sure if he's expecting me to reach out. How would you feel if he contacted you and said he wants involvement? Would you allow him?
I feel he’d really have to show he wants to be a part of my son’s life & only bring a positive impact onto him. The fact he’s not even checked in to see how the baby is / his development etc speaks volumes to me. I’d personally love to have his legs broken but I won’t 😂😂😂
Mine already had 3 kids with 2 women, so I was pregnant with his 4th, which was one reason, “I don’t want anymore kids”. His first baby mum stopped him seeing their children when he got his second baby mum pregnant, so he was worried she would stop him seeing their son if he has another, as that’s what his first did- which she also did after our daughter was born. For the first 5 months of my pregnancy he wasn’t involved, and then he decided he wanted to be, and now he’s an amazing dad and I’m glad I gave him the chance. He also grew up without knowing his biological dad, so he didn’t want our daughter to grow up the same.