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Seems like he just tried to match your energy and now you’re upset about it. You can’t just expect him to keep changing emotions for you at a drop of a hat. Sadly only we can do that as women. My husband never posts me unless I say something. He’s just not a super social media dude. But does it for like our anniversaries and such. 🤷🏼♀️ I’ve asked for more. Just. Doesn’t happen. Now he hasnt texted other girls, that part is not cool.
Knowing that I was pregnant it’s understandable to have your emotions everywhere never did I get reassurance and say it’s okay babe I know you’re going through a lot physically he wanted to have sex all the time and get head and I was just exhausted caring for two other toddlers and working also cooking so he would get mad and then say I wasn’t showing affection to him but really I needed the affection I needed more from him and for him to text other females when we were going through a tough time does bother me even tho he did apologize I never expected that from him cause he preaches loyalty and honestly. So me finding that stuff idk it made me feel a little insecure not of the woman specifically but just in general cause that breech of trust and that I never would have seen that stuff unless I looked though the phone what about stuff I didn’t see ?? Idk I’ve been trying really hard to just move past it since he apologized but with him withholding affection when he gets
Upset throws me in a loop I feel like I’m being mind fuked anytime I try to tell him how I feel he’s like “you always say I feel this and I feel that you’re so emotional” instead of communicating and maybe I am the problem who knows
He doesn’t post me even when I ask him I’m not on his page he claims he’s not into social media but I see the post he likes of other girls idk I just want to be shown off cause he is in social media and that may seem childish but we live in a time where literally social media is everything if he didn’t have instagram then it would even be anything for me to be posted on obviously he post our baby why not my face
Have y’all thought about couples counseling? My husband and I are about to go into that. I struggled with really bad mood swings with this last baby and it was hard on my husband. He did understand they were mood swings and I was pregnant. But I still can have mood swings because your body and brain doesn’t go back to normal for at least 18 months after the birth. Maybe talk to him and tell him y’all should try it because you feel like with your mood swings it changed him and you want to figure out how to make it better for both of y’all for the sake of your little one.
He’s brought up counseling before when I was prego but not anymore maybe I can actually schedule something now so we can figure it out
What I do is I go to therapy myself and my husband goes himself and then we will go to couples
I get compliments but not like how I used to during early pregnancy and prior to pregnancy