Experiences with an@l?
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Lots of lube...go gentle and use a small dildo to help. Not going to lie the first few times it does hurt but my partner just stops while I breathe and relax then goes in deeper slowly. I love anal and for the first time I squirted 🙈🙈 although the next day is fun it makes me windy and going for a poo is fun 🤣
i’ve done it many times and it still hurts every time. even with lots of lube, even going slow, starting small. i don’t totally hate it but i wouldn’t say i like it. it feels like i need to 💩. using a vibrator while he’s back there definitely makes it better, but still i only do it for him
@Izzie If you don’t like it, stop doing it. If it’s no fun, you don’t have to do it “for him”! Also, a good loving partner wouldn’t *want* to do it unless you were into it. And if he were any good at it, he’d make sure you were having a good time. What you’re describing is basically coercion and that’s just messed up.
@Sharon it’s definitely not coercion, i’m willing to do it even if it’s not great for me. it’s not something that happens often at all. he really tries his best though! thanks for your concern
It can and generally does feel like needing to poop the first little bit of anal sex. My biggest piece of advice is to continue doing foreplay and stretching the sphincter out before going to penis in ass sex. You want the sphincter to be as stretched as the penis itself or there is the potential for pain or tearing. You also do not want numbing lube. The numbing lube can and does make it to wear you don't fully feel when you need to apply more lube or slow down which can lead to tears and tears are painful af when you next shit.