is he valid in being mad?

So apparently me telling my BD that had I never met him I would have eventually had a baby / gotten pregnant by / with someone else even if they left me after getting me pregnant (bc I had had 2 pregnancy scares prior to him and both guys told me to abort bc they didn’t wanna be w me) is like a major offense and he’s SUPER mad at me for saying it to the point where he brings it up whenever he’s mad it me but like… I would have? He was literally married before me and once told me he would have married and had babies with another girl he dated but he tells me that those are “different” and won’t explain how or why he’s so mad that I said it and I don’t understand how it’s a problem?

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I personally believe that you should be able to be open with your partner about your past. To me I don’t see a difference really, other than they were married at the time. I think it’s just men being men and he probably just feels insecure about it. Although, he shouldn’t feel that way because literally everyone has a past. When you truly love someone you accept them for them and whatever baggage they have. If you can’t accept it then that’s when you part ways.

Girl, ur partner needs to get over it. 🙄 It’s literally ur past. Why is weaponzing ur past in ur relationship? I would ask him why he gets super mad? Must be triggering something in him. When I was a teenager, I had 2unplanned pregnancies that I terminated. That is a part of my past. Im 34 now so if I would have have those babies at 15 & 18, my life would have turned out differently and I probably wouldnt have met my Husband & had a kid with him. Bt My Husband knows this bt he is never going to bring it up to throw it in my face to insult me in an arguement etc. When I was pregnant with our now 3 yr old son, it was technically my 3rd pregnancy (cuz of my prior pregnancies in my teens) bt it was my Husbands first. Bt it’s literally so irrelevant at this point of our lives

@𝓛𝓮𝓷𝓪 ✨ I agree with u! So weird to be with someone who throws ur past in their face & makes it seem like u commited a major offenses. I would ask myself why is this person even with me? Do they or can they even say they love me cuz ur right tru love comes with acceptance

I suppose he's maybe just trying to hurt your feelings and gaslight you. In a way you are clearly stating a fact. And he just doesn't like hearing that you could have had a baby to someone else

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