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The same thing happened to me after each of my pregnancies . I even had a Dr argue with me about it as well. The only way I was ever able to shut them down successfully was to exclaim that my husband doesn’t want me on birth control and then they’d stop pestering me right away.
@Audrey nope ! No issues, ive had all 3 the first month of trying, no after care issues. They ask me about clamps and tieing my tubes every single appointment since 30 weeks. And whbe i say no they try to get me on the pill and when i deny that they offer other forms. Its absolutely ridiculous
Weird, I usually hear the opposite of women having trouble finding a doc who will do the permanent procedures voluntarily. It's good that they offer, but the insistence is odd.
@Lorri🌱 eww, it's so wrong that husbands preferences have to be a deciding factor one way or the other for them to respect medical decisions 😡
@Audrey I’m definitely with you there! I was surprised that it kept them quiet each time. It’s my body not his but the fact that they quickly backed off when I stated it was something he also didn’t want pissed me off after I had my second child big time! Like my opinion on my own body doesn’t matter but of course if my husband speaks up they listen to him. 🤦🏻♀️
Hasn't even been mentioned yet. Seems inappropriate to try to convince you one way or the other. Have you had complications with pregnancies or fertility issues? Struggled with PPD/PPA or caring for your current children? I could see them pushing it if there's a medical reason, but otherwise it's really none of their business.