I hate myself

It’s okay to admit you messed up and then do better. This will pass and everything will be okay.

Are you saying you’re currently pregnant and drank alcohol and you’re worried it could harm your baby?

Hey ❤️ there’s nothing that can be done at this point so I would say there’s no point in beating yourself up but that’s not really how we work right? Try to talk to yourself the way you would talk to a loved one going through the same thing - you probably wouldn’t shit all over them and would show them grace, you deserve grace too. It’s no excuse but in my own experience Midwest drinking culture is very dangerous, I had multiple people, men and women, come up to me unsolicited in WI telling me either they drank during pregnancy or their wives drank during pregnancy. There’s a lot of pressure about it even if you’re just trying to go about your day. If you do find yourself unable to show yourself grace please look for a therapist to work through this with and maybe look into involvement in fetal alcohol syndrome awareness groups? There are a few in MN

Please give yourself grace . Praying for you

@Natalia no

@Lindsey thank you

Hi, I noticed that you have been having a rough time lately and have posted several times on here about being depressed. Are you seeing a therapist? I don’t have a ton of experience with what you’re going through but I’m hoping for yours and your baby’s sake that things turn around for you. Sending you good vibes!

If your baby is healthy don’t beat yourself up about it I smoked weed and I drank wine until i was 24 weeks