Honestly...

Honestly it sux to feel like no family is checking up with call or txt to see how I am after my miscarriage. I posted a message about my miscarriage on a private family messenger page and haven't got any messages back. I feel like when it's one of my sister's who go through something then everyone in the family go and plan a family meeting to support them. But when it comes to me...well nothing no support. I had miscarriage on the 29th March with help from medical management. And today grieving has just sunken in and I had a big cry. It's like we can't really talk about it to anyone or share our experience. My baby stopped growing at 7 weeks.
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Sometimes people don’t have the words to speak I personally didn’t want to talk to anyone until I was ready to speak about mine I’m sorry for your loss

Bless you i feel like i could of wrote this myself, i’m so sorry for your loss I lost my first pregnancy in June 2024 at 16w 6d, my mum done some pretty wild things at the time and her behaviour was completely out of line, even told me who i should and shouldn’t invite to baby’s funeral then walked out crying when i told her its my decision, she wanted me to put others feelings above my own during one of my worst times And it still annoys me to this day because i know when its one of my siblings going through that or something similar she would never treat them the way she did me, I’ve since gone no contact for my own peace You don’t have to know all the right words to say to someone going through MC a simple conversation about anything would be nice enough, are you talking with any bereavement teams? Look in your local area for any baby loss groups it might help to get the support elsewhere with people who understand what you’re going through since your family are assholes like mine

Omg, how sad I'm sorry for your loss @J wow 16 w 6d that's tragic,far out you been through a lot of heartache. Hope your doing well and looking after your self. No I haven't talked to any bereavement teams I have been given info on a support group. I think you're right too, to find support elsewhere instead of family.

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