Do you still get turned on by your partner like you used to??

I feel so bad that I feel this way I don’t even care for having sex anymore. I fear it’s because everytime i turn around I hear “I can get some head tonight?” And who tf wanna hear that when every night he come home smoke play the game and sleep while I’m cooking cleaning tending to our toddler doing bath and bedtime also waking up in the middle of the night to put our son back to bed all while getting ready to have our next child in a few days. All I can think about it is how it will be after I have this one 🤦🏾‍♀️

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🤣🤣🤣 FR the audacity these men have smh

Definitely talk to him about it! everyone deserves (if they wish for it) to have a full and enjoyable sex life! if certain things that he is doing are bothering you and it is effecting that, speak to him so he can make those changes. i think some people are more physical and less emotional when it comes to their sex drives, so although it may effect you a lot, he may not even register that outside factors could be effecting what’s going on inside the bedroom. of course he should already know that he should be helping you etc (i’d be explaining that’s bothering you too) but sometimes people don’t mean to and slip in to a habit and if it’s never been brought up as an issue, will never have any reason to change that. if you’ve brought it up before, then it is a different issue that needs addressing as to why he has not changed and i’m sorry. but my first step if you want to improve your sex life, would be to address the other issues outside of it ❤️