Just don’t think I can do this anymore

Just had a serious conversation with hubby about giving up trying . After a recent miscarriage and surgery I just feel like I can’t go through this systematic torture anymore which is consuming my whole life . Not the first time it’s happened . I’m grateful for my little boy already and I feel I may have to give up on a sibling for him as I can’t physically and mentally do this anymore . The tests , the scans the fucking anguish it’s killing me

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I can totally understand, have been in the same boat. I can’t really speak for your decision but I have tried to take the pressure off my head and stopped tracking. If it happens it happens and if it does not I have a beautiful daughter and may be God has other plans for her siblings. I had a miscarriage last year July and then nothing after that. Sending you hope and best wishes

Just said this to my husband. I don’t know how much more I can take. Ttc for a second child for I think 27 months now. Had an early loss in January. Doing iui. The drugs make me feel awful and the heartbreak of a negative test…idk how much more I can take.

I know exactly how you feel after having a healthy pregnancy followed by 2 miscarriages. If you really want a sibling for your little boy maybe just take a break then start again. I'm now 17 weeks pregnant after two losses I also didn't know when it was healthy to stop but it took a few months for me to get pregnant after the 2nd loss, although it was hard getting the negative tests each month I believe the break in getting pregnant even though it was out of my hands must have helped me get to where I am now or that's what I would like to think xx

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