How to change my life.

I’m a single mom and struggling to even buy groceries. I’m really tired of this. We are not able to afford simple things as fish and meat. ( by any means I am not crying I’m just tired to live life like this). I just want an advice on how I can get out of my situation. Change my finances. Become more financially free. I truly want to change my life. How I can make more money and what I can start with. I am not a citizen in the US so I don’t qualify for the Calfresh and majority other programs. I do have a job but we are really struggling. The father is also not on the picture and yes we did apply for the child support but they were not able to locate him still.
Like
Share Mobile
Share
  • Share

Show your support

Get a certificate at a community college

What type of work are you doing now? What is your support system like today? Are you interested in looking for a higher paying job or second job? What skills do you have? What are you passionate about?

https://www.ilrc.org/sites/default/files/2024-02/CA%20Public%20Benefits%20for%20Noncitizens%20.pdf

@Shannon I’m working the front desk job. I don’t have any support system except some friends but they are in other states. I’m always in the lookout for other jobs but I’m very limited due to me not being a citizen. Because citizens usually get a priority at getting hired I’m with no special skills. I love photography, fashion, I already do something with fashion which I resell clothes online on Poshmark. But I don’t know how to make it in the way that it will be enough for us

@Elle it’s a little tricky for me because someone has to watch my son if I want to keep the job and go to college. If I want to study online then a college has to provide the scholarship for me otherwise there’s no way I can afford college at this point of my life

It’s illegal for employers to discriminate based on citizenship or immigration status. https://www.uscis.gov/i-9-central/employee-rights-and-resources/preventing-discrimination#:~:text=Federal%20law%20prohibits%20employers%20from,%2C%20disability%2C%20or%20genetic%20information.

Everyone has skills and something they are good at. Sometimes we just need to stop to think about it, write them down, say them out loud… Based on what you’ve shared, here are a few things I can think of: Job Search: Work on creating a resume if you don’t already have one. Apply to jobs and customize your applications to each job detail that you apply to increase your chances of recruitment selection. Don’t get discouraged. Current employer: Have a conversation with your supervisor about development opportunities and assistance creating a plan to help with your growth and development. See if they offer any education incentives, training opportunities etc. Ask if there are additional projects or responsibilities you can take on to build your skill set.

Education: There are many free options in L.A. County. The L.A. County Public Library system is full of resources including Online Learning, tools for job seekers, citizenship, laptop rentals, museum and state park passes etc. https://lacountylibrary.org Non citizen can mean different things. I don’t know your status, but pending eligibility, you may have access to free community college tuition. To check your eligibility, look into California College Promise, CA Dream Act and AB540. https://lacollegepromise.org/about.html

For a side hustle: With front desk skills, maybe something like a virtual assistant role would be a lateral option for you. You can look into shopping thrift stores, garage/yard/estate sales to expand your buy/sell venture on Poshmark and other platforms. I knew someone that would shop garage sales and then flip them at their own every couple of months. If you are already good at photography, create a portfolio and promote/sell your services. If you need to develop or refine the skill, look into classes at a community college. Food Security: also look into food pantry programs and food banks.

Best of luck to you. I hope something I’ve shared is helpful. 🫂

https://www.calbright.edu/college-reimagined?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=google_search_branded&utm_content=branded_ad_group_big_ideas&utm_term=calbright&utm_term=calbright&utm_campaign=Google+Search+-+Branded+Campaign&utm_source=adwords&utm_medium=ppc&hsa_acc=2386144782&hsa_cam=18872132622&hsa_grp=144141493140&hsa_ad=715736584312&hsa_src=g&hsa_tgt=kwd-383694542067&hsa_kw=calbright&hsa_mt=b&hsa_net=adwords&hsa_ver=3&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAACp1wr4E6rgxW_5Q06IYxmYjGYtvH

@Shannon thank you soooo much for your replies for your support and taking your time 🙏❤️🌸

You’re welcome. Women should elevate one another. 🙏🏼

Read more on Peanut
Trending in our community