I would like some advice in this area
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@Ema i rub his penis
@Ema 💀🤣🤣💀 I’m sorry I died reading this comment 😭
It really depends on his personality. Impov if they’re more reserved like to be direct because I think it’s cute when men blush 😚😅 especially when it’s my man 🥰 Yah can touch his hand, slide it up the his shoulders, firmly grab his face but kiss him softly and him a small nip if he’s into that. Make out a lil bit, rub his chest, slide down to his stomach to his privates. Take yah shirt off and so on, yall will both be on the same time after that like haha, can’t get no more obvious than that. Be confident and respectfully take what’s yours 🥰 truuust he’ll love it. However keep in mind the type of person he is lol. If he’s not on the freaky side of things he probably won’t like this approach. So. Maybe discuss it ahead of time so he doesn’t get uncomfortable or feel violated.
What if your partner is never interested but you want to jump his bones 24 7?
@Becky lol oh I don’t know about that have you asked him if he wants to ?
Yeah he says because I want it all the time it feels like a chore to him 😒
@Becky oh nooooo I’m sorry
@Becky I don’t know I would literally tell him ‘better you than somebody else’ because that’s crazy
@Becky Does he do everything or do you partake in it too? Maybe spice it up? Maybe ask him what does he mean and how does it feel like a chore? Because that is insane to say that about your significant other ☹️
Hunni I’ve been married for 25 yrs . So I maybe a little older than some of yall in this comment section. But the way I start getting my hubby in the mood, is giving him a good massaging & then kissing him gently on his chest & stomach . And then he lifts me up, & start giving me oral sex . I absolutely love it ! I guess that’s why we got 4 children lol 😂. But definitely try something seductive sis.@alisha
Well I don't know if he's too much in his head about it. Also I've gained like 3 stone since we first started dating due to eating issues and my medication that I'm on. When he doesn't want it I feel like he doesn't find me attractive. It's getting to the point where I'm trying to notice flaws in him so that I don't want him as much. I just miss the honeymoon period. We're engaged but to be honest as hard as it is to say I don't know if we're going to get married...
@Eviee he never initiates anything and when I try to he says he's not in the mood so then I feel rejected by my own partner
@Becky good morning hunni , girl I’m so sorry you’re going through this . Like someone in the comment section just recently stated , sex matters in a relationship & definitely in a marriage. And it feels like a chore ! No ma’am,that is not acceptable to say . Sex should not seem like a chore . Doing chores is boring , & some ppl hate even doing chores . So that analogy is not acceptable to say at all . You & him definitely need to sit down & talk this out without the arguing or getting loud with one another . You’re on medication that’s making your hormones go everywhere,& it seems like he’s not in the mood . I’m telling you now, woman to woman . Find a solution to the problem before the cheating starts,sus .
Lol i can't give any advise. I tried to initiate sexy time for valentines day and it ended up with me saying "get your ass in the room so we can have sex" 😅🤣🤣 it was probably the most awkward sex we've had bc i tried to take control of it all... But it ended with me accidentally being pregnant so it couldn't have been too bad. 😆🤷🏼♀️
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@Becky this is how I feel with my husband. It’s really annoying how high his sex drive is. I have zero interest because it’s such a turn off to hear it constantly
@Brianna lol 😂. It’s the demanding fa me lol 😂. I love it girl 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@Jan lol well I took a shower and came out in just a towel and trying to tease him or something but that wasn't working and he asked me "is something wrong with you? Why are you squirming and not putting clothes on?" Like this guy can't get a hint at ANYTHING! 🤣🤣
@Brianna lol exactly I don’t like taking control bc it just feels awkward to me but I do try and it does end up being successful so
Look up non penetrative sex and use those ideas to start. I'm on pelvic rest for 4 more weeks so that's where I'm at right now.
As the higher drive person it's so hard being turned down so we've come to multiple compromises over the years and non penetrative sex has been our biggest compromise. It's less that they have to perform and more connection based
Sorry, what do you mean rub him off ?