Am I in the wrong for feeling the way I feel
So back in November my husband got caught looking at escort websites and in December I found out he downloaded a text app to communicate with them he says he never met with any of them just talked he was working out of town so I don’t really believe him well he text me today saying he think he’s going to quit his job he’s already told me today that a friend of his he work with quit today to work in Minnesota so I told him to go where I hope not out of state he says there’s nothing local it would have to be out of state I said well if you work out of state I’m getting a job because if you do what you did again it’s a wrap I’m leaving and I need to start preparing myself financially with 2 kids and he’s like what about our 5 week old I’m like he’s going to have to go to daycare well he doesn’t want him there which I don’t either but I’m not going to have any other choice and like I told him why are you rushing this decision he said you must not know how all this work out here after all these years of being with me everything is last minute and I told but when it comes to quitting the only income we have no it should not be a rush
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So he may not want you to get a job to keep you under his control. If you don’t have your own finances you are at his will. Def would not trust the “working out if town” suggestion since he was caught red handed attempting to have sex with other women. Just prepare yourself and kids to adjust to possibly being a single parent household if he doesn’t change. Coparenting can be a positive experience and you don’t have to worry if he is being unfaithful and putting your health at risk.
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Your feelings are valid. Sounds like he got caught cheating and you are holding your boundaries. Quitting should never be last minute unless you are financially OK without having an income.