@Brittany well Brittany your hubby is very lucky look at you 😍 it is nice for self esteem when I’ve done my hair make up and dressed nice of course. My baby is 2 months old now so Im working out and getting my fit body back. I’ve recently seen on a reel on ig where there were women testing their men, they set up a camera in their car… started unzipping showing some cleavage before going into a store etc then the guy basically says “what are you doing” and zips her back up all annoyed. That’s what I’m used to in my past relationships. I love my hubby but sometimes I think is this a good thing or maybe I’m overthinking it.
Yeah no I’d be uttterly annoyed if my husband “zipped me up” or didn’t want me to wear this and that in public- I wear what I want. He shows no controlling or jealousy aspects about him and that’s what I love about it him and he’s one that likes to “show me off” in public too he doesn’t care how short or revealing the dress is (not that I wear TOO revealing) but as long as I’m walking next to him holding his hands he’s got a big head and a big smile and doesn’t care about the looks and stares I get. He says HE gets to take me home, not them. I get dressed up weekly, I go out weekly. Dressed up w him though- monthly. Some of my gfs aren’t allowed to come salsa dancing w me that’s how controlling and jealous they are. I’ve thanked my man many times for not being like that.
Awww thank you, you’re very sweet ☺️ I can totally see how you’re feeling a certain way about it since you’ve had previous partners who were the opposite. But honestly, I would look at it as a sign of trust!
My husband is similar. He has never controlled what I wear, always compliments me, loves when I get all dressed up and such for date nights. He says it makes him feel lucky 🤷🏼♀️ He also knows it’s good for my self esteem to have nights where I get dressed up and feel sexy since I’m in mom mode 24/7. I think both things can be true at once. I know if any man came close to me in his presence he would not take it lightly and probably end up in trouble 😂 I know this for a fact as it’s happened before lol.