Am I stupid?

So basically me and my partner are separating, he cheated on me and I’m not in love with him anymore. We have a 2 year old son and I really want to give him a sibling it breaks my heart when he is playing alone with his toys. Me and my partner were discussing having another but then that happened. I want them to have the same dad as well so am I selfish or stupid if I have another baby with him just for the sake of our son? Obviously I would love another as well but that means having sex with someone who I’m not in love with just so I can have his child.

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Please don’t! It’s not worth the extra stress and baggage that it would come with and you are worth more than a person like that.

Oh my god please don't, that is a stupid idea! My boys are full siblings and my daughter is their half sibling, but my boys totally don't see her that way! She's their sister, none of this half shite!

i know you’re hurting, and i understand why you want your son to have a sibling, but this isn’t the way to do it. unless you and your ex had a clear, mutual agreement that this would be purely for conception and nothing more, it would be unfair to both of you, especially if emotions get messy. more importantly, bringing a child into a broken relationship on purpose isn’t setting up the best foundation for them or for you. one day, you’ll be able to have another baby with someone who truly loves, respects, and supports you and that will inevitably be the better foundation to bring a child into. your son doesn’t just need a sibling, he needs a happy, healthy mother, and i think that should be your priority right now.

@anisha 𝜗𝜚 oh god this made me cry 😢 you’re so right, thank you ❤️ I honestly don’t think I’ll meet someone else tho I don’t even think I want to I’d rather just be alone and I’m 32 now so will prob end up being too old to have another if I do end up finding someone

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