I just want to be done

I want to be done with how I'm feeling, drained, stressed, frustrated, sick, in pain, emotions everywhere, holding everything in, having no outlet in am so overwhelmed and drowning I don't even know what to do. I love my children i would die for my children but the lack of support I've had from family is unbelievable. I'm lucky I have my partner but he is feeling the same. This is awful. Fucking awful. I feel sorry for my kids that no one wants to bother with them. Or even want to offer to give us a break. I hate everyone right now. I've always been good to people always been there and helped people and I wish I never was because this is what I get back.
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my dear , so sorry you are going through this . this is tough time but this will pass away . you need rest . i wish i could help .stay strong

I'm sorry you are feeling that way. Your family don't offer help spontaneously?or do you ask, and they still don't help ? Any friends that could assist? Sometimes people don't realise you need help and think you will reach out if you need. Otherwise I would focus on what you have, can you take turns with your husband? We usually try to let one of us rest during the weekend, for instance I'll take both kids to the park while my husband stay longer in bed or does his things. Can you afford having a cleaning sometime or child care?

Following! X I’m so sorry mama. U definitely need a break! And u deserve one. Ur so lucky to have ur partner, jus remember that this jus a season. The days are long bt the years will go by quickly! X Im on the same boat, afraid to even try to feel positive abt having trying for another baby cuz we don’t have help with our son & I knew I couldn’t do 2under2 because of how demanding it would be bt now that my is 3+ Im toying around with having another bt I don’t know how I will handle the trenches cuz lord knows Im tired 😭 I feel like no one even cares! At this stage of toddlerhood I feel Like my child is almost on his way to independence & the thot of going thru it all over again jus my Husband & I is really causing a panick in me. Having no help from family sucks, having nobody to offer help is frustrating. The lack of support is isolating. U jus end up hating ur family. Im so sorry! Ur not alone x

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