Advice 💔

Like saying looking for sex not a relationship makes it better!? Some men the audacity

I’m so sorry you are going through this 😔 what the actual fuck is wrong with men seriously?! I found out my partner was cheating a few weeks ago too and we have a 2 year old. He still hasn’t left the house so I have to see his face everyday and re live the pain. He’s ruined everything 😠

It sounds like you still want to stay with this man so I say talk to a therapist if you can afford to see one. Broken trust is a major killer of relationships, and he is not communicating his needs and being totally insensitive and callous to yours.

You can forgive me and give him another chance for your baby … but make difficult to forgive him so he doesn’t do it again

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. The cheating in itself is disgusting but doing it while you’re partner has just birthed your child, recovering from all the pain and changes, looking after the baby on the clock and you go out and look for sex, because it’s “changed”. What about your partners body that changed carrying your child you don’t see her doing something crazy. Plus you’ve had sex really no compared to others so it makes me think he didn’t even have to wait long. Personally once a cheater it will never be the same, it will never be fully healed or trusted. You will forever be questioning your worth, his actions, his trust and whereabouts.? You are at your most vulnerable stage and if your partner can do that while you are 3 weeks pp then they don’t care about you x

Do not feel like you have to give him sex now to make him stay!! Sex is an intimate thing, regardless of who it’s with. “It meant nothing” doesn’t exist to me, it must’ve meant something to do/have intentions of doing things. There will be a change in the atmosphere for couple days as well. Sex isn’t ever on my mind, I’m 9 months PP. I think I’ve had sex maybe a dozen times since giving birth, possibly more, I’m not a weirdo that counts 😂😂 you’re learning to be a mum and baby is learning to be a baby, just like we all are. Tell him how you feel, don’t hold it in. You’re a great mum ✨

Make sure to eat and stay hydrated while recovering and going through this heartbreak <3 try and get some good sleep if you’re able to. That will help with your thoughts & emotions and help give you strength to take care of baby. I would start therapy and reach out to your support people. 741741 is a hotline you can text for support as well. I find it to be helpful! Virtual hugs ❤️

3 weeks pp you poor thing I hope it wasn’t forced 😔 what a pig not supporting you - incredibly disrespectful. I hope you are able to fix the damage he has caused

I am sorry, but this is 2025. There are a lot of single mothers doing a great job. I do not think you would rather share your partner with the community for the sake of him "being a good father." It's not good enough for me.

Is this a he would be open to therapy thing or a 2 happy homes are better than one unhappy thing? Id just ask him.

@Victoria Aguilar I know right right it’s meant to make me feel better cause it’s not emotional. 😒

@Stacey I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s completely unfair they do this and you’ve still seeing his face Omd that’s the hardest thing. That’s another things that hurts, they what could have been. Sending so much love and light xx

@Megan that’s something I’m still thinking about, my heart is still wanting to stay but who knows it’s just hard at the moment. Selfish ass, he’s begging saying it’s only one “mistake” don’t let it ruin what we have 😒 like are you for real.

Bro! It's 2,000% emotional 🙄